"Going Greek"... or not

Movies and TV series about being a member of a Greek organization have become a staple of entertainment for many college-aged students and those who are thinking about going to college.

"Going Greek" has become an idealized way to have the perfect college experience.

Modern shows like ABC Family's Greek and TBS' Glory Daze carry on the tradition of romanticizing the idea of pledging and joining a Greek organization in college.

While I have no objection to those who join Greek organizations (I have plenty of friends who are "Greek"), I also find it annoying and slightly offensive to be surrounded by mediums like books, movies, etc. that constantly imply that those who are in Greek organizations have a better and more satisfying college experience.

I understand that part of the reason that media romanticize Greek organizations is because the controversy surrounding that lifestyle can sometimes be interesting, but I find that it makes prospective and current students more willing to stereotype those organizations in "real" life.

With so many of the same story lines being played again and again, it's easy to transfer those beliefs into what college life is like or what it should be like.

And while becoming a member of a Greek organization can open up many doors for those who are involved, the media rarely show the positive aspects of being involved (although many consider the partying portrayed in entertainment media to be a positive aspect) or the reality of being in a Greek organization (such as dues and the responsibilities of a member).

Being Greek opens a lot of opportunities for college students: making new friends, becoming a part of group that provides you with a network of support, service and leadership opportunities, and many more.

But, becoming a member of a Greek organization is not the only way to obtain a valuable and satisfying college experience.

For me, the definition of "satisfying" is very different from someone who defines satisfying as simply getting by in class, while partying and playing video games all day. It's also very different from someone who defines satisfying as getting away from their family and being able to do whatever they want, whenever they want.

Having a satisfying college experience is about doing what is best for yourself and for your future goals.

If you value making friends and networking, becoming Greek is a great option for you. If you value hands-on experience, getting an internship or becoming involved in honors groups or departmental job opportunities is a great option for you.

I would love to get away from the idea that partying and "getting by" is the best way to experience college, I would also love to get away from the idea that these are the only things that Greek organizations do.

While I have found that becoming a member of the Greek community is not for me, personally, I think it is a great choice for some people. And, I am really happy with the experiences and opportunities that I have been offered at Muskingum, they are a part of what I want for my future.

Whether you participated in Rush week and Bid Day or not, becoming a member of the Greek community doesn't define your college experience. Your own definition of college and your expectations of what will make you the most happy now, while helping you achieve your goals in the future should be what defines whether Muskingum has given you a satisfying college experience.